Each day I still receive messages from Gymboree and other locations that we went to together. In some cases it was just you and me and in others we went to the class with your mother as well. Many of them ask you to come back and I would love to take you back but I do not know where you or your mother are since your mother has been bouncing you around and hiding your location from me for almost 9 months now. Each day I would like to take you to an enriching class that will help your development like I was able to growing up but your mother has made this impossible for you. I forgive her for this and still love her but your alienation and abduction from your father must stop now.
Today if you were with me we could be a part of the Gymboree Play and Music program which is great for preschoolers and children your age. This is part of their add that I received today in my email:
School Skills at Gymboree Play & Music is
perfect for your preschooler!
Join this fun-filled learning opportunity that encourages curiosity and builds self-confidence in your preschooler through art, science exploration, play and more!
School Skills classes build key social, emotional and intellectual skills needed for school and everyday life.
Come in for a FREE trial class today!
You could take a free trial class in Los Angeles with your father and see if it is something that you would enjoy taking. Instead of taking you to this class, today I commuted to central Los Angeles from a friend’s house, checked in at some local agencies that are helping you and me prepare for your time with your father which will happen soon, and I applied for some exciting Los Angeles government positions that an employee believes I would be perfect for. I do have so much work coming up but I will be able to take care of you at the same time easily. I also have certified and licensed help from nurses that have many years of sitting experience who are excited to meet you and take care of you since we know you have so much healing to do now.
I do want to be with you each day, the only reason you are not with me is because your mother is hiding you from me, and soon this will change. I love you, you are a beautiful woman, and your mother and I are still married. I still want to support her during these very hard times but she will not communicate with me. I do send her polite and inviting messages from time to time but I never hear a response. I only get the cold shoulder just like I do from some of her friends and family. I want you to know that giving people the cold shoulder and not answering questions is a sign of mental unhealthiness. It shows an inability to control and manage anger and I want you to be able to manage your anger well so that you are able to solve problems much better than these abusive people have in a hurtful way. If your mother wanted time away should could have it but that is no reason to treat you like a tool or a pet while keeping you from your safe, caring, and loving family as well as your father that loves you and treats you like only a biological father can.
Your left behind father,